Isn’t It Time To Put Your Matches Away?
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Burning bridges makes things certain. At least that is the need it seems to fill. Certainty. I like to stay away from qualifiers such as good and bad, right and wrong in my life’s journey, so let’s stick with how we “feel.” If you’re anything like I am, you’ve had a time, or perhaps are still in a time, where you’d rather “know” … Continue reading

The Danger of Seeking Mr. Perfect
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In April I wrote about an obsession I developed wondering if a man I was dating was “the one.” You can read it and have a good laugh HERE. It’s five weeks later and — it’s safe to say — he is not. No harm done, just part of the dating process. I still sense that my man is headed to me as fast as … Continue reading

Healthy Boundaries or Missed Opportunities?
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A few weeks ago I returned from a much overdo voyage to visit family and friends in Greece. I traveled with my mother and stayed with friends and relatives along the way. And… we shared a room for 23 days and nights. My mother and are close and get along well. But even so, I had my trepidation about such a long trip in such … Continue reading

He Loves Me...
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Since the year and a half since I’ve divorced, I have dated. A LOT. A few connections here and there, but, nothing to go the distance. And then I met “him.” Well, I thought it was him, and it may be him, but it may also be a symptom of my readiness… which isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but perhaps not “the one.” Or maybe he is. … Continue reading

Are life’s challenges making you Bitter or Better?
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Are you afraid you’re going to go out of business? Are you fearful that a relationship will end or that a dream you have will die? My personal answer to all of these – at one time or another – has been: YES! But there is a way I’ve found that allows for a fresh alternative… When in doubt do nothing. Honestly, that sort of thinking … Continue reading